BDSM for Beginners

Are you and your lover interested in BDSM? This introductory guide (meant for couple in any situation) can help you become more comfortable with the beginning stages of BDSM. BDSM stands for bondage/discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism...that's a lot packed into four little letters. Let's get started!

Today, I’m going to be guiding you and your partner in the practice of BDSM. You might be an experienced practitioner of kinky sex or you might just be mildly curious about the subject. Whatever your experience, you’re in the right place. Today is going to be about safe, comfortable, and fun intimacy between you and your partner. BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism….and it’s all about trust and communication. There are many misconceptions about BDSM. Whatever you might think you may know about BDSM, I want you to try and forget about it right now. Today, we’re going to focus on defining BDSM and kink for ourselves. We’re going to try a few different things in order to learn what we like and, just as importantly, what we don’t like. Some people have the misconception that it’s merely about inflicting and receiving pain during sex…but kink deals with psychological themes just as much as it does physical acts. BDSM is about emotional connection and playing strictly within the boundaries of yours and your partner’s comfort level. At its core, it’s about trust.

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