Edging with Lizzy

Hey, you. It’s Lizzy.

I’m so glad you’re here with me today, because… well, this is something I’ve been wanting to do with you for a while now.

You’ve heard of edging, right?

Edging is when you get really, really worked up, almost to the point of climax, and then… you stop. I know it sounds a little counter-productive, but… the results are so worth it.

Working on your self-control with edging can make your pleasure longer, stronger, and way more intense.

After a long session of edging, your orgasm can be two or even three times as intense as it normally is.

Sounds fun, right?

So, the way we’re going to do this is I’m going to give you instructions on how and when to touch yourself. To get the most out of this session, it’s important that you do what I say, when I say it.

I’m going to be in control of when you start and stop, okay?

If you’re someone who enjoys being told what to do, this is going to be easy for you.

If you’re someone who isn’t as interested or experienced in following orders, that’s totally fine.

This session isn’t about submission. It’s about getting in tune with your body and getting a better understanding of your pleasure.

Now, if you don’t have much experience with edging on your own, I suggest you start with the BLOOM Beginner’s Guide to Edging before moving on to this one.

Because believe me… this session isn’t for beginners.

There’s one simple rule for this little game we’re about to play: you can’t cum. Not until I tell you to.

So, if you’re ready, let’s get started.

Make sure that you’re somewhere comfortable.

Your bed, the couch, a chair. It doesn’t matter where you are, so long as you’ve got some privacy and enough space to explore your body.

It’s easier if you’re completely naked during this session, but if you feel more comfortable keeping some of your clothes on, that’s totally fine.

So, go ahead and take a few moments to maybe take off your pants… or maybe unbutton your shirt, whatever you want to do.

Alright. If you want to use a toy for this, pause this audio and go grab it. You can also just use your fingers. It’s up to you, really.

The toy will definitely make things more intense, so if that’s what you’re in the mood for… go for it.

Got your toy? Just keep it close by. We don’t need it quite yet, but we will soon.

Now… I want you to take a deep breath in… and out.

Good. Let’s do that again.

In… and out.

While we’re doing this session, I want you to make sure your breathing stays controlled and focused.

You should make a mental note of any changes in your breathing. Maybe touching your nipples will make you breathe harder… maybe stroking your fingers up your thighs will make you relax more. Our bodies are all unique, and the more we know about how they respond to touch, the better we can tailor our pleasure experiences.

Speaking of your body… I want you to start touching yourself now.

Don’t think too much about where or how. Just let your instincts guide you to an area you like to be touched in.

That might be your neck… your jaw… your chest… hips…

Wherever it is, I want you to just run your fingers… very gently… lightly… over your skin.

You can trace patterns with your fingertips… or maybe use your nails for a little extra sensation…

Mm, just… wake your body up to your touch…

Do whatever you need to make yourself feel good…

Wherever you’re touching, make a mental note of it. Your instincts probably took you to your favorite place to be touched.

Keep going with those soft touches… and while you do that… I want you to focus your mind.

You might still have thoughts swimming around your head, thinking about what you did today… or all the things you have to do tomorrow.

Let’s take a few more deep breaths. And with every exhale, I want you to imagine that you’re breathing out all of that mental clutter.

Breathe in… and out.

Good.

Now… I want you to trail your fingers down your neck, towards your breasts.

Take one of your nipples between your fingers, and pinch it just a little.

Now, the other one.

There’s no need to pinch it hard… just enough to feel a little sensation, a little jolt of pleasure.

There you go. Trail your touch further down… down your stomach… then over your thighs.

Now, spread your legs.

Good.

Now… drag your fingers along the inside of your left thigh. Do it slow.

And now… do it to your right.

I wish it was me touching you… feeling your warm skin…

I think you’re ready to play with your clit…

Are you?

Do it slowly, gently. There’ll be plenty of time to make things more intense later.

Now, just ease your fingers between your legs… and start massaging your clit. You can touch it however you want… just make sure it’s slow.

Fuck.

Mm, that’s it. Just like that…

Keep going. Move in slow circles around your clit…

If you want to speed up… don’t. We’re not there yet.

Just keep going…

You have no idea how hot you are right now…

I can’t wait to get to the end… to see how intense this gets for you.

Rub that clit a little faster for me. You can go harder, too. But don’t enter yourself, not yet.

By the way… I’m touching myself, too.

I can’t help it, knowing what you’re doing, how wet it’s making you.

I really love hearing you moan. Can you do that for me?

Mmm, keep working your clit. Just… spread your wetness around…

If you want to use a toy, you can switch it on to the lowest setting now. Just let it rest up against your clit…

Just like that…

Now… with your free hand, I want you to run your fingertips all along your body, from your thighs all the way up to your neck.

Touch yourself wherever it feels good…

Does that feel good?

It’s just so hot, how into this you are… how desperate this is getting you…

I know there’s a lot of sensations you’re feeling right now, but… think about what you’re doing.

The fact that you’re practicing self-control right now, bringing yourself up to the edge and then back down from it again and again…

We’re connecting our mind and body… and the more we understand that connection, the more powerful our orgasms can be.

Fuck…

I want you to take your fingers or your toy, and I want you to tease your entrance.

If you like penetration… go ahead and enter yourself. If that’s not your thing, just hang out there… maybe pumping your fingers a little… or just exploring that area.

Whenever you’re ready… slide your fingers… or your toy… inside nice and slow.

Are you thinking about me? Thinking about how it would feel if it was me… my fingers easing inside you?

You might be feeling a little desperate right now… like you want more… but remember… this is all about going slow. Pay close attention to how it feels as you thrust inside… and then ease back out.

Fuck, I’m… I’m really wet right now.

How are you doing? Do you feel like you’re ready for more?

If you’re using a toy, turn it up to a medium setting and maybe change up the vibration pattern. If you’re using your fingers, I want you to add another one and fuck yourself a little harder or faster.

Oh, fuck, that feels good. Keep going, just like that.

Yeah, there you go… God, yes…

That’s it. Spread your legs a little more.

Does that feel good? Fuck, I wish I could see your face right now…

Put your toy on the highest setting now. Or, if you’re using your fingers, go a little bit faster, a little bit harder, whatever feels good to you.

We’re going to keep going for a little longer… but remember, don’t cum. If you feel like you’re already getting close, back off and take a little break.

Otherwise, just wait for my next instructions.

I told you—this isn’t for beginners. I’m going to push you to the limit.

So, keep fucking yourself. Go back and forth between your clit and your pussy, whatever it takes to get you close to the edge…

We’re almost there. Five more seconds…

Five…

Four…

Fuck…

Three…

Two…

One…

Slow down. Switch the vibrator to the lowest setting or remove it entirely. Same with your fingers.

How was that? I’m feeling… yeah, I’m pretty worked up, myself.

Real quick, take a moment to tune into your body. Notice the muscles that are contracting, the way your breathing has changed.

Are you wet? Is your heart racing?

These are things you might not notice when you’re with a partner. But right now, the focus is all on you.

Just you. Your body. Your reactions.

Okay, now that we’ve had a breather… let’s get going again.

Put the vibrator on a medium setting now. If you’re without a toy, just make sure you pick up the pace and the intensity.

You can fuck yourself with your toy or with your fingers, you can play with your clit… or you can do both. Just do whatever is going to take you to the edge.

Alright, let’s do this.

Fuck. That feels so good.

A little more now… turn the vibrator to the highest setting. Go faster… harder…

That’s it… fuck, yeah, just like that…

Okay, okay, now stop.

I know, I know. I wish I could see your face right now.

Just breathe for a moment. And don’t worry… you know I’m going to take you over the edge… eventually. You just don’t know when.

Okay, this time, I don’t want you to think about anything other than that end goal.

Think about how good that’s going to feel… how satisfying.

God, you want it so bad, don’t you? I can tell.

Well, go ahead. You can start touching yourself again. But do it slow.

Put the vibrator on low. Or use just one finger…

Rock your hips into your hand. Moan out loud. Let your fingers drift around your body, touching, feeling, squeezing everywhere.

God, it’s going to feel so good when we finally get that release…

Keep playing with yourself. Keep making yourself feel good. We’re building that pressure back up.

Turn the vibrator to a medium setting, or you can thrust in and out of yourself faster…

Not too fast… just enough to keep you on the edge. We want to feel that need to keep going… and have the self-control to not go any further, to stop ourselves whenever we want…

Yeah, stay right here with me… right here. This is… oh, fuck, this is good…

Do you want to cum?

Fuck, I want to cum.

Just a little longer, I promise. We’re almost there…

Okay, here we go. Turn the vibrator up to the highest setting. Start moving faster, harder.

We’re still drawing it out… still building pressure…

Almost there… we’re so close. Can you feel it? All of that pressure building… wanting release…

I promise it’ll be worth it.

Keep going… faster… harder.

Just like that—yeah. We’re going to cum together, okay?

I’m going to count us down. When I get to one, I want you to release all of that pent-up energy. Release all of those emotions, all of those sensations. Just let it go.

Even if you don’t cum, just let go.

Ten…

Nine…

Eight…

Fuck, yes…

Seven…

Six…

That’s it, almost there.

Five…

Four…

Oh, fuck, yes…

Three…

Two…

One…

Let go. Right now, let go.

Oh my god…

Wow. Oh my god. Let’s just… rest now.

Take a deep breath in… and out…

Again. Deep breath in… and out…

Pay attention to how you’re feeling right now. Is there any lingering tension in your body? Or do you feel completely relaxed?

Is your mind empty? Or… are there any thoughts you’re still holding onto?

Did that feel satisfying… or could you go again? Think about how this session went compared to when you touch yourself without guidance.

There’s no right answer to these questions, by the way, but paying attention to how we feel after something like this can help us better understand what we need… and want.

By the way, if you didn’t climax during this session, that’s totally okay. Really, that can happen for any number of reasons—especially with edging.

Sometimes we edge too close and cum too early. Or sometimes we edge a little too much and end up not being able to achieve orgasm.

It takes practice.

Okay. I’m going to give you some time to yourself now.

Whatever you choose to do, try to use this time to revitalize your energy.

Do something that fills your cup. Speaking of… get yourself a glass of water when you get up. It’s important to hydrate after sex and masturbation.

I hope you’ve experienced a little boost of energy and the sense of empowerment that can come with edging.

We should do this again sometime.