Edging with Barry

Hey. It’s Barry.

Today you and I are going to do something special.

We’re going to experiment with a little edging.

Edging, as you may already know, is taking yourself to the edge of orgasm… and backing away.

It’s about self-control, and extending your pleasure as long as you can.

If you do it right, then the more you edge yourself… the more intense the finish will be.

I’m going to give you instructions on how and when to touch yourself. To get the most out of this session, it’s important that you do what I say, when I say it.

How fast or slow we reach the finish line is up to me.

If you are someone who enjoys being told what to do, this is going to be easy for you.

If you’re someone who isn’t as interested or experienced in following orders, that’s totally fine.

This session isn’t about submission. It’s about getting in tune with your body and getting a better understanding of your pleasure.

Now, if you don’t have much experience with edging on your own, I suggest you start with the BLOOM Beginner’s Guide to Edging before moving on to this one.

Because, believe me… this session isn’t for beginners.

There’s one simple rule for this little game we’re about to play: you can’t cum, not until I tell you to.

So, if you’re ready, let’s get started.

I want you to find somewhere comfortable: your bed, the couch, a chair.

You should position yourself so that you feel comfortable exploring your body and capable of reaching climax.

It’s easier if you’re completely naked during this session, but if you feel more comfortable keeping some of your clothes on, that’s totally fine.

So, go ahead and take a few moments to maybe take off your pants… or maybe unbutton your shirt. Whatever you want to do.

Alright. If you want to use a toy for this, pause this audio and go grab it. You can also just use your fingers. It’s up to you.

Got your toy? Just keep it close by. We don’t need it quite yet, but we will soon.

Now… I want you to take a deep breath in… and out.

Good. Let’s do that again.

In… and out.

I want you to focus on your breathing throughout this session.

Make a mental note of how your breathing changes depending on where you’re touching. The more you know about your body, the easier it is to give yourself pleasure.

Speaking of your body… I want you to start touching yourself.

It doesn’t matter where. Just let your instincts guide you to an area you want to touch… an area that you like to be touched in.

Run your fingers… very gently… lightly… over your skin.

Keep going. Maybe draw patterns with your fingertips… or let your nails dig in a little.

Where are you touching? Your neck? Or… maybe your chest? Inner thighs… your lips…

So many possibilities…

Wherever you’re touching, make a mental note of it. Your instincts probably took you to your favorite place to be touched.

Keep going… soft touches. And while you do that… I want you to focus your mind.

Your mind might be swimming with the day’s events, or all the things you have to do tomorrow…

Let’s take a few more deep breaths. And with every exhale, I want you to imagine that you’re breathing out all of that mental clutter.

Breathe in… and out.

Good.

Now… I want you to trail your fingers down your neck, towards your breasts.

Take one of your nipples between your fingers, and pinch it a little.

Now the other one.

There’s no need to pinch it hard… just enough to feel that sensation… that little jolt of pleasure.

There you go. Trail your touch further down… down your stomach… then over your thighs.

I want you to spread your legs.

Good.

Now… drag your fingers along the inside of your left thigh. Do it slow.

And now… do it to your right.

I wish it was me touching you… feeling your warm skin…

You know what I want? I want you to play with your clit.

But I want you to do it slowly… gently, at least for now.

Go ahead. Just ease your fingers inside… and start massaging it. You can touch it however you want… but go slow.

Fuck.

Yeah, like that.

Keep going. Move in slow circles around your clit…

If you want to speed up… don’t. We’re not there yet.

Just keep going…

Have you ever wondered why people edge themselves? Why someone would put off the satisfaction of cumming?

Well, I think it’s because it gives people a sense of control. It makes you feel empowered… confident.

Rub that clit a little faster for me. You can go harder, too. But don’t enter yourself, not yet.

Can I tell you something?

I’m touching myself, too. I can’t help it. Knowing what you’re doing, how wet you are getting…

You can be vocal, you know, if you need to. I’d love to hear some of your moans.

Mmm, keep working for your clit. Spread your wetness around.

If you want to use a toy, you can switch it on to the lowest setting now. Just let it rest up against your clit…

Just like that…

Now… with your free hand, I want you to run your fingertips all along your body, from your thighs all the way up to your neck.

Touch yourself wherever it feels good…

Fuck, I bet that feels good.

Now… where was I? Oh, yeah. Control.

If you’ve done this before, you know what kind of control I’m talking about. Edging yourself brings together your body and your mind.

When you bring yourself up to the edge and then back down from it again and again… you start to understand more about your physical limits, and the connection between your mind and your body.

And the more we understand that… the more powerful our orgasms can be.

Fuck…

I want you to take your fingers or your toy, and I want you to tease your entrance. If you like penetration… go ahead and enter yourself. If that’s not your thing, just hang out there… maybe pumping your fingers a little… or just exploring that area.

Whenever you’re ready… slide your fingers… or your toy… inside nice and slow.

Are you thinking about me? Thinking about how it would feel if it was me… my fingers… or my cock, easing inside you?

You might be feeling a little desperate right now… like you want more… but just go slow, baby. In and out… really paying attention to how it feels as you thrust inside… and then ease back out.

My cock is throbbing right now.

How are you doing? Do you feel like you might want to take this to the next level?

If you’re using a toy, I want you to turn it to a medium setting and maybe change up the vibration pattern. If you’re using your fingers, I want you to add another one and fuck yourself a little harder or faster.

Fuck, that feels good. Keep going, just like that.

Yeah, there you go… God, yes…

That’s it. Spread your legs a little more.

Does that feel good? Fuck, I wish I could see your face right now…

Put your toy on the highest setting now. Or, if you’re using your fingers, go a little bit faster, a little bit harder. Whatever feels good to you.

We’re going to keep going for a little longer… but remember, no cumming. If you feel like you’re already getting close, back off and take a little break.

Otherwise, just wait for my next instructions.

I told you—this isn’t for beginners. I’m going to push you to the limit.

So, keep fucking yourself… go back and forth between your clit and your pussy. Whatever it takes to get you close to the edge…

We’re almost there. Five more seconds…

Five…

Four…

Fuck…

Three…

Two…

One…

Slow down. Switch the vibrator to the lowest setting or remove it entirely. Same with your fingers.

How was that? I’m feeling… pretty worked up, myself.

I want you to pay attention to your body right now. The muscles that are contracting, the way your breathing has changed.

Are you wet? Is your heart racing?

These are things you might not notice when you’re with a partner. But right now, focus on you.

Just you. Your body. Your reactions.

Okay, now that we’ve had a breather… let’s get going again.

Put the vibrator on a medium setting now. If you’re without a toy, just make sure you pick up the pace and the intensity.

You can fuck yourself with your toy or with your fingers… or, you can play with your clit. Or both. Just do whatever is going to get you to the edge.

Okay, let’s go.

Fuck. That feels so good.

A little more now… turn the vibrator to the highest setting. Go faster… harder…

That’s it… fuck, yeah, just like that…

Okay, okay, now stop.

I know, I know. I kind of wish I could see your face right now.

Just breathe for a moment. And don’t worry… you know I’m going to take you over the edge… eventually.

Now, we’re going to start again, but this time I don’t want you to think about anything other than that end goal.

Think about how good that’s going to feel… how satisfying.

Mm, I bet you want it so bad…

Well, go ahead. You can start touching yourself again. But do it slow. And gentle.

Put the vibrator on low. Or use just one finger…

Rock your hips into your hand. Moan out loud. Let your fingers drift around your body, touching, feeling, squeezing everywhere.

God, it’s going to feel so good. When we finally get that release…

Keep playing with yourself, keep making yourself feel good. We’re building that pressure back up.

Turn the vibrator to a medium setting… or you can thrust in and out of yourself faster…

Not too fast… just enough to keep you on the edge.

Yeah, stay right here with me… keep going.

Do you want to cum?

Fuck, I want to cum.

Just a little longer, I promise. We’re almost there…

Okay, here we go. Turn the vibrator up to the highest setting. Start moving faster, harder.

We’re still drawing it out… still building pressure…

Almost there… we’re so close. Can you feel it?

I promise it’ll be worth it.

Keep going… faster… harder.

Just like that—yeah. We’re going to cum together, okay?

I’m going to count us down. When I get to one, I want you to release all of that pent-up energy. Release all of those emotions, all of those sensations. Just let it go.

Even if you don’t cum, just let go.

Ten…

Nine…

Fuck, yes…

Eight…

Seven…

Six…

That’s it, almost there.

Five…

Four…

Oh my god…

Three…

Two…

One…

Let go. Right now, let go.

Oh my god…

Wow. Okay… I want you to just relax now.

Take a deep breath in… and out…

Again. Deep breath in… and out…

Pay attention to how you’re feeling right now. Is there any lingering tension in your body? Or do you feel completely relaxed?

Is your mind empty? Or… are there any thoughts you’re still holding onto?

Did that feel satisfying… or could you go again? How was this session compared to when you touch yourself without guidance?

There’s no right answer to these questions, by the way. But paying attention to how we feel after something like this can help us better understand what we need… and want.

By the way, if you didn’t climax during this session, that’s okay. Really, that can happen for any number of reasons—especially with edging.

Sometimes we edge too close and cum too early. Or sometimes we edge a little too much and end up not being able to achieve orgasm.

It takes practice.

Okay. I’m going to give you some time to yourself now.

Whatever you choose to do, try to use this time to revitalize your energy.

Do something that fills your cup. Speaking of… get yourself a glass of water when you get up. It’s important to hydrate after sex and masturbation.

I hope you’ve experienced a little boost of energy and the sense of empowerment that can come with edging.

We should do this again sometime.