Bathtub Play

Hi, my name is Joel. Today I’m going to guide you in a self-touch session focused on pleasure in the bathtub or shower.

We bring ourselves pleasure in many different ways. In bed, with a partner, with toys. And pleasure can feel different depending on how and where we’re experiencing it. Involving water in our pleasure routine can introduce a little variation and excitement in our self-touch habits.

It’s totally safe to masturbate in the bath or shower, by the way. Just make sure that you don’t let water get up inside of you during our session today. A little bit is okay, but we want to avoid getting too much into the vaginal canal. And, if any part of the bathtub is going to be touching your genital area, such as a detachable showerhead or faucet, make sure those are clean before we get started. There’s actually quite a few benefits of masturbating in the bath or shower.

For one, it’s not going to require much, if any, cleanup. Secondly, bath or shower time is a form of self-care that we already engage in frequently. The combination of heat, various aromas, and a little pampering make for a great way to destress. Adding in the erotic element of touching ourselves during this time is like giving ourselves a supercharged gift of relaxation.

Experiencing pleasure with water is a little bit different than traditional masturbation or sex. You might find that the places you normally like to be touched need a little bit more or a little bit less stimulation. You also won’t feel as much wetness, or pre-cum, while touching yourself since the water will be continuously washing it away. There are plenty of toys you can take in the bath with you, and feel free to do so for this session. You can use a water-proof vibrator, a suction-cup dildo that attaches to the wall, or you can even wear a buttplug while you’re bathing.

You can also use the forceful flow of water out of your faucet head to give yourself pleasure or a detachable shower head if your bathroom is equipped with one. If you don’t have an appropriate toy for the shower or bathtub, no worries. You’ll be fine just using your hands. So, before we get started, let’s get settled in the bathroom and set up. Go ahead and start drawing a bath if you haven’t already. If you don’t have access to a bathtub, feel free to get your shower ready.

Masturbation is a form of self-care and it’s important to consider the small details about the environments we receive pleasure in. Making sure that we’re as comfortable as we can be is essential. You might want to turn some music on in the background or turn off the lights and light a couple of candles. You can also prepare your bath with a few drops of your favorite essential oil or some bubble bath.

Go ahead and set out a towel or robe for yourself for when you’re finished. And maybe get a glass of water or something to drink that you can enjoy in and after the bath. Make sure that any toys you’re going to be using are accessible. You won’t need any lube for this session because water acts as a natural lubricant. However, if you are using a buttplug during this session, you will want to use lubricant before inserting the toy inside you.

Alright, if you’re ready, we can go ahead and get started. If you need a little more time to get prepared, feel free to pause this episode and resume when you’re ready.

Okay, go ahead and climb into the bath or shower and get settled. Give your body some time to adjust to the warm water. While I’m talking, make yourself comfortable and just allow your body to relax. This time is all for you - for your desires, for your pleasure.

Let all of your stress from the day just melt away in the heat of the water. Let your thoughts drift inward.

Let’s take a couple of deep breaths. Take a deep breath in…and out. Good. Let’s do another. Deep breath in…and out. Perfect.

You’re probably feeling nice and warm from the water already. I bet your muscles are loosened up… and relaxed. I want you to lightly place your fingertips on your upper thighs. Whether you’re standing up in the shower or lying down in the tub, just gently wake your body up to your touch.

Drag your fingers up and down across your skin. Just like that. Right now, all I want you to do is make yourself feel good. Whatever that means for you. You can use any pressure you’d like. Try giving yourself feather-light touches…or squeeze and massage your skin. Whatever you’d like.

Let one hand travel up to your chest. Gently rub your fingers around your breasts. Over your nipples. How does that feel?

Masturbation in the bath allows us to really use all of our senses, more so than we might while in the bedroom. Take a moment to notice any smells you’re experiencing…the sound of the water flowing…the sensation of steam against your face. If you’d like, you can lather some soap between your hands or on a soft sponge or loofah, and gently wash yourself.

Think of this as your time to seduce yourself.

Trace your fingers over your nipples again, if that feels good. Give them a little pinch. If you’re in the shower, stand so that the water falls down on your nipples. If you’re in the bath, touch your nipples while they’re beneath the surface of the water. That’s it. Just experiment with making yourself feel good.

If you’re in the bath right now, I want you to try using the flow of water from the faucet to stimulate your clit. If you have a detachable faucet, this will be quite easy. If you’re in the shower, you can use your fingers to stimulate yourself. First, make sure the water isn’t too hot. You can play with the temperature and see if you like it warm or cold. Different temperatures will give us different pleasure sensations.

It might feel a little awkward, but try and find a comfortable position where the water flows down onto your clit. This might involve lifting your legs up and resting them against the edge of the tub or the wall so that the faucet is somewhere between your knees. Remember…you just want the water to fall onto your clit.

Feel free to touch your clit with your fingers as the water stimulates you.

Slowly…gently…rub your clit in circles.

Notice the differences in your pleasure while you’re underwater. Is your body more relaxed? Is the sensation more or less intense?

Change the direction you’re rubbing in. Now, if you’d like, you can get out your toy, if you’ve got one. If it vibrates, turn it on to the lowest setting.

There…just like that. Touch yourself however you want to. Start a slow rhythm and just let your body tell you what it likes. You can use any combination you’d like…fingers, toy, or faucet. Maybe all three at once. Try out different positions…different water pressures…different temperatures.

Fuck… that’s good. Part your pussy lips. Let the sensations fill you up. Guide the toy or your fingers around your labia, tease yourself by stimulating all around your clit without touching the clit itself.

Maybe you want to penetrate yourself? You can slide one finger up inside and pulse it gently in and out…in...and out. Add another finger…and with your free hand, reach up and give your nipples some more attention. Pinch them where they’re most sensitive.

How does that feel? Do you like that?

Does it feel different? Touching yourself underwater?

Go a little bit faster. Fuck yourself a little bit harder. Yeah, just like that. Make yourself feel good. You’re doing so good.

Check in with yourself: are you getting close? It’s okay if you’re not. The only goal here is pleasure. Wherever you are in your pleasure, embrace the warmth building up inside of you. Don’t resist it. I’m going to give you some time alone now to continue this self-touch session on your own.

“You deserve this pleasure. Let it build up to that release that you’ve been craving. ”

“Let your body guide you. Let it tell you where and how it wants to be touched.”

“Give your body the time and care that you deserve.”

“Thank yourself for giving your body this gift.”

Feel free to continue on exploring your body during this time or just relax in your pleasure. Whatever you decide to do, I hope this session has been enjoyable or informative. Thanks for joining me and we’ll see you next time.