Sensual Play for Her

Hi, there. Thanks for letting me guide you through this slow and sensual intimacy session.

We’re going to be slowing things down so that we can take notice of every sensation when we’re intimate with each other. And we’re going to be intentional with every touch, every kiss, every caress.

Sometimes when we have sex with our partners, we can get wrapped up in the intensity of pleasure and sensation. We start moving too quickly towards climax instead of slowing things down and really appreciating what we’re doing.

So today, that’s our goal. Slow and sensual intimacy to experience a fuller and deeper pleasure. And remember, just because we’re going slow doesn’t mean we’re not going to experience any less pleasure.

On the contrary, slowing things down could very well result in longer and more intense orgasms.

You should be somewhere comfortable and private, like your bedroom, or perhaps your living room. Wherever you and your partner can comfortably engage in sex.

Before we start, make sure you have some lubricant on hand, if you’d like. You can also have a vibrator nearby if you and your partner want to use a toy.

And depending on where you and your partner currently are, make sure that the temperature is good. Dim the lights, maybe light a candle. Whatever you want to do to make the space comfortable.

So, pause this track, take as much time as you need to get yourselves prepared, and press play when you’re both ready.

Ready? Let’s get started.

Let’s take a few deep breaths together. Follow me. In…

And out…

Very good. Again. In…

And out…

Try to quiet your mind as you breathe. It can feel a little difficult to do this at first, especially if it’s been a busy day. So take your time and be patient with each other, and yourself. Focusing on your awareness of your breath, even just a little, can really help alleviate any tension in the body.

Now, just a quick note, I want you to think of me as a guide, rather than some kind of teacher or rule-enforcer. You don’t have to do everything exactly as I say. You don’t have to do anything I say at all. Take my instructions as suggestions. You should feel free to adjust your pressure and pace to what you know your partner likes.

If you’re really into kissing, kiss as much as you’d like throughout this audio. If you’re not into fingering, then substitute that section for something else, like using a toy.

This should feel more like a game than a lesson. Let go of all the pressure and self-consciousness that can come up during sex and just let me take the reins for a bit.

You can both do the things I suggest, or just one of you can be the leader and the other the receiver. However you want to do it.

Okay.

How about you two lie down next to each other, if you aren’t already? Lie side by side maybe and just look at each other.

Reach out and just start gently touching each other. Maybe run your fingers down her arm… or trace the shape of her jaw and lips…

Just start to sink into each other’s touch. Warm yourselves up to it.

Reach out and place your hand on her chest. Try to feel her heartbeat.

Take this moment to just… connect with each other.

I want you to kiss her now. Soft and slow. Like you’re kissing her for the first time.

And as you kiss her… trail your hands over her back. Slide them up between her shoulder blades… down to the small of her back. Show her through your touch just how good it feels to be with her.

Notice how good it feels to just be in this moment with your partner.

Keep kissing each other. Deepen the kiss… maybe with tongue… maybe by holding her closer…

Show her how much you desire her. Let your hands press up against her chest and slowly run your fingers up to her shoulders.

Slide your fingers over to each side of her neck. You can curl your fingers into any hair back there… or just wrap your hands around the back of her neck.

Put your arms around her waist now. Let your fingers slide over her ass… and tease the area at the top of her thighs.

Mmm, that’s right…

Now… I want you to let your fingers drift down to her hips. If she’s wearing pants or underwear, I want you to slowly take them off.

Place your fingers, or your toy if you’re using one, right at the entrance of her pussy. Let them hover at her outer lips and… just introduce her to the sensation of being touched.

Feel free to grab some lube if that’s something either of you would enjoy.

Push your fingers between her folds… just a little… and slowly… drag them up to her clit…

Just like that.

If that feels good, show her. Tell her with words or let your body do the talking.

Feel her hand moving softly up and down through your folds… her fingers rubbing slow… small circles around your clit… sliding up and down your pussy…

Just focus on the sensation… the intensity of each movement…

Go just a little bit faster now… add just a little bit more pressure for her… increase the intensity if you’re using a toy…

So good…

If she’s getting really wet, then slow your movements down… draw out the sensations for her…

Drag your fingers through her folds… and up onto the clit again… gently massaging…

Focus your touch on her clit where she’s really, really sensitive… but not for too long.

Mm, yes…

While she’s fingering you, I want you to give some focus to her tits.

Start off by just lightly caressing her nipple with your thumb. It’s just a little touch to get her warmed up… to get her feeling a little bit of sensation…

Roll it between your thumb and forefinger. Nice and soft… introduce her to the feeling of your touch.

That’s good…

Good, good… squeeze them a little. Just a little pinch at first.

Get them nice and hard.

You both are probably making really hot noises now. Little soft sighs and moans… keep being vocal. Keep showing each other how well they’re doing.

Or maybe you’re being quiet, and that’s okay too. Just make sure you’re letting each other know what you’re enjoying.

You should keep stroking her clit nice and slowly as she plays with your nipples. Remember, we’re not rushing anywhere. Not racing towards climax. We’re just really taking the time to experience and enjoy the sensation of pleasure…

You might feel yourself getting a little desperate… craving more… feeling a little teased, maybe…

Giving your partner some bites on the shoulder or neck might help alleviate some of that frustration… not too rough now…

If her nipples are hard, pinch them a little bit. Squeeze them between your thumb and forefinger. Tweak them between your fingers with slow, deliberate movements.

Bite them gently, if she likes that. Or run your tongue over them in small, tight circles.

Just like that…

Now, if you’re being fingered, I want you to slowly trail your fingers down your partner’s chest. Slide them down to her abdomen… her hips… and just let them hover between her legs.

You’re not going inside yet… just press your fingers right up against her folds.

Let her feel them there… it’s a bit of a tease for her. Knowing you could slip inside of her at any moment… the anticipation of knowing how good it’s going to feel…

If she would like, feel free to coat your fingers in some lube before going any further.

Slowly, gently push the tip of one finger between her folds… and slowly… stroke up from the entrance of her pussy up to her clit…

Again… stroke her with just the tip of one finger… just like she’s doing to you… just parting her folds really, really gently…

Give her a little more now. Add a second finger and just make your way up to her clit. Take your time in arriving… and give it a few soft, slow strokes…

She might need to guide you a little bit and tell you where exactly to focus your touch. Wherever she wants you, just make sure you’re really moving with intention.

Oh my god, I bet that’s driving her crazy… the slowness of it…

If she’s wet, you can take some of that wetness and just move it up to her clit… spread it out a bit and just pay attention to what’s really giving her pleasure.

Focus only on her clit now. Rubbing it a little… applying pressure. See what she responds to, see what she likes.

Fuck, that’s good, isn’t it? Keep going…

And now… slide your fingers down to her pussy. Find her entrance… and just hover there… teasing her…

Maybe push the tips of one of two fingers in just a little… But don’t enter her.

Now, check in with each other, either verbally or just visually. Let each other know if you’re ready to move on to sex.

One of you might be and the other might not. That’s okay.

If you need a little bit more foreplay before moving on, that’s totally fine. If you’re ready to go, then feel free to carry on.

Either way, I’m going to leave you alone now to continue your journey. Thanks for letting me join and see you next time.