Booty Play for Couples

Hi, my name is Sophia. Today, I’m going to be guiding you in an erotic anal foreplay session for you and your partner.

This session is great for beginners and those who have never experimented with anal play before. Anal pleasure can be kind of intimidating at first, but many people practice it and many more are what we might call anal-curious. It’s also a great activity you can add into your sex life as foreplay, penetration, or even something a little kinkier. Perhaps you’ve always been curious but have avoided the practice out of fear of discomfort. Or fear of making a mess.

Today, we’re going to put your mind totally at ease and introduce you and your partner to a brand new kind of pleasure that will open up your sex life. Together, you’ll explore new parts of your bodies and new ways of making each other feel good. Anal pleasure is complementary to clitoral and vaginal pleasure and can be enjoyed at any point during sexual activity. It doesn’t have to be the main event, but it can be a great addition to an already satisfactory sex life.

First, lube is extremely important for having a comfortable anal experience, so make sure you’ve got some on hand. Since we’re not using any toys today, silicone-based is the best choice. It’s a thicker consistency and will stay in place better than water-based lube. You may want to lay down a towel on whatever surface you and your partner are going to be laying on to avoid lube getting on your bedding or furniture.

The atmosphere is also important, so take a few moments to adjust the lights, the temperature, and perhaps light a candle.

Now, sit or lie down with your partner and just get comfortable. This is a good time to get intimate and just be close to one another. Feel free to touch each other lightly and just… be together.

Alright, let’s get started. Before we begin any touching, let’s talk a little bit about hygiene. Preparing for anal pleasure is a simple and easy process. If you are particularly nervous about having your anus touched, especially if it’s your first time, it can be helpful to take a long bath or shower to get yourself relaxed. This can be a nice activity to do with your partner and warm each other up before intimacy.

For comfort and safety reasons, it’s nice to have your nails clean and trimmed short if you’re going to be touching your partner’s anus. You can also use latex gloves to aid smooth and safe penetration. Some people like to perform enemas before anal sex, but it is not necessary for massages and shallow penetration. Baby wipes are a good thing to keep on hand if you encounter any kind of mess.

Now, let’s relax our bodies and our minds. This is important as we want our rectum to be as relaxed as possible as we start this exercise. Go ahead and take a deep breath in…and out. Very good. Once again. Breathe with me. In…and out. I want you to just sit in this stillness for a few moments with me. Breathing in…and out. In again…and out. Perfect.

Discuss amongst yourself for a few moments who will first be giving and who will be receiving. You can always listen to this track again and switch positions, if you’d like.

If you’re going to be giving for this session, I want you to start by removing your partner’s clothes.

Go slowly as you remove their shirt. Their bottoms…their underwear. Trace patterns across their skin as you do so. Just enjoy touching them…teasing them. Look into their eyes and let them know you’re going to make them feel good.

You and your partner should continue with some light intimacy throughout this session. Kissing each other, trailing your hands down each other’s bodies, waking up both of your bodies to touch and warmth…keep going. Keep letting your desire for one another grow.

Now, when you’re ready, squeeze a liberal amount of lube into your hands and rub them together. Lubricant is necessary for any kind of anal practice and you’ll need more than you think.

Go ahead and squeeze another small amount of lube onto your index finger.

Slowly place your hand around your partner’s backside. With a light touch, slide your index finger between their asscheeks and gently find their anus. When you find it, just begin to circle around it with your finger.

Right now, we just want to lubricate the area and get it ready for stimulation.

Take a moment to check in with your partner and see how this is feeling. Is their body getting comfortable with this feeling? Or are they tensing up a little? It might be a little strange at first, but just experiment with some light rubbing and tapping against the area.

There you go. That’s perfect. The receiver can also practice self-touch to feel more aroused and relaxed, if they’d like. Feel free to pause the track here if the receiver needs more time to get used to these new sensations. Otherwise, let’s keep going. If the receiver is ready, the giver can push the tip of their finger directly up against the anus. Don’t penetrate them quite yet, but just push lightly and see if there’s any resistance…

You’re both doing so good. If the receiver is tensing up, no worries. Just keep breathing and try to relax as much as you can into this new sensation. Find a good position that feels comfortable for both of you. The receiver on their knees facing away from their partner is good for easy access…or having the receiver lie on their back with their legs spread while the giver lies on their side can allow for more intimate moments…kissing…touching. Feel free to change positions if you need to…whatever makes you both most comfortable.

When you’re both ready, you can slip your finger a little bit further inside the anus. If you feel you need more lubricant, go ahead and get some.

Slowly pull your finger out… and then push it very gently back in. How does that feel? Keep repeating this motion if the receiver is enjoying it.

If the receiver would like to and hasn’t already, they should feel free to begin pleasuring other parts of their body where they enjoy being touched. If they want to massage their genitals…or tweak their own nipples. Experiencing deeper arousal and pleasure will make you both more relaxed…

Let’s experiment with some other types of motion. Whoever is giving might want to try some rhythmic tapping of their partner’s anus and playing with the amount of pressure they’re applying.

Discuss your limits as you go. If penetration with the finger isn’t comfortable for either of you, make sure to voice that concern.

Now, let’s try combining some different forms of pleasure. For example, see what it’s like to kiss one another while you’re stimulating the receiver’s anus.

Don’t worry if it’s difficult to focus on two things at once. Practice will help.

The receiver can pleasure themselves however they’d like right now…perhaps with their fingers… …

I’m going to give you some time alone now. Time to continue exploring your body and these new forms of pleasure.

Be gentle with one another. This is a brand new experience and you might want to take it slow.

There’s no goal. Right now, we’re just trying something new.

Get in tune with your body. Listen to what it likes and what it doesn’t.

The intimacy between you two is growing stronger.

Perhaps you and your partner would like to continue playing with one another. Or maybe you’d like to stop and check-in to see how you both enjoyed this experience. Whatever you decide to do, I hope that this session has been relaxing and informative. Our bodies are capable of so much pleasure… Let us help you and your partner reach new heights.