Booty Play for Beginners

Hi, my name is Julia. Today, I’m going to be guiding you in an erotic anal masturbation session. This session is great for beginners and those who have never experimented with anal pleasure before.

Anal pleasure can be kind of intimidating at first. Perhaps you’ve always been curious but have avoided the practice out of fear of discomfort. Or fear of making a mess.

Today, we’re going to put your mind totally at ease and introduce you to a brand new kind of pleasure that will open up your sex life.

First, lube is extremely important for having a comfortable anal experience, so make sure you’ve got some on hand. Since we’re not using any toys today, silicone-based is the best choice. It’s a thicker consistency and will stay in place better than water-based lube.

You may want to lay down a towel on whatever surface you’re going to be laying on to avoid lube getting on your bedding or furniture.

The atmosphere is important, so take a few moments to adjust the lights, the temperature, and perhaps light a candle.

Now, get yourself into a comfortable position, whatever that may be.

Alright - let’s get started. Before we begin any touching, let’s talk a little bit about hygiene. Preparing for anal masturbation is a simple and easy process. If you are particularly nervous about playing with your anus, especially if it’s your first time, it can be helpful to take a long bath or shower to get yourself relaxed. For comfort and safety reasons, it’s nice to have your nails clean and trimmed short.

You can also use latex gloves to aid smooth and safe penetration. Some people like to perform enemas before anal sex, but it is not necessary for short masturbation sessions. Baby wipes are a good thing to keep on hand if you encounter any kind of mess.

Now, we’re going to relax our body and our mind. This is important as we want our rectum to be as relaxed as possible as we start this exercise.

Go ahead and take a deep breath in…and out. Very good. Once again. Breathe with me. In...and out. I want you to just sit in this stillness for a few moments with me. Breathing in…and out. In again…and out. Perfect.

Now, feel free to continue wearing your shirt, if you’d like, but go ahead and remove your pants and your underwear.

Now, when you’re ready, squeeze a liberal amount of lube into your hands and rub them together. Lubricant is necessary for any kind of anal practice and you’ll need more than you think.

Now, squeeze another small amount of lube onto your index finger. Slowly, press your finger and the lube up against your anus. Yes, just like that. Right now, we just want to lubricate the area and get it ready for stimulation.

Take a moment to consider how it feels to apply pressure to the outside of your anus. Get your body comfortable with this feeling. It might be a little strange at first, but just experiment with some light rubbing and tapping against the area.

Very good. Make sure the area is extremely well-lubricated. Perfect.

Now, just touching the outside of your anus might be giving you a lot of sensations. You may not feel ready to penetrate yourself until you’ve done multiple anal massage sessions. If that’s the case, that’s totally okay. Keep massaging the area and getting yourself used to being touched there.

Feel free to pause the track here if you need more time. If you do feel ready, slowly, gently push the tip of your finger into your anus. Don’t push far....just enough to give you a little bit of sensation.

How does that feel? Notice how your mind and your body are reacting. Your thoughts might be racing a little bit. And your anus might be tensing up. Just keep breathing and try to relax as much as you can into this new sensation.

You may want to begin touching other areas of your body, to become more aroused. The more aroused you are, the easier this can be. Let’s experiment with different types of movement. Try pushing your finger a little further in, if you’d like. Or, you can try rubbing your finger around your anus, applying pressure on and off again.

Try to gain an understanding of your limits as you go.

If you need to, apply some more lube to your finger and your anus. This will help you enter yourself deeper and keep you from feeling discomfort. Very good. You’re doing so well. Keep going.

If you’re feeling good about the sensations you’re experiencing, let’s add in some clitoral stimulation. With your free hand, gently part your labia. You may find that the anal massage has made you wet. Slowly, apply pressure to your clit and gently finger yourself.

Pleasure is often amplified when you have multiple forms of stimulation occurring at once. Feel free to explore other erogenous zones on your body, such as your nipples or inner thighs.

I’m going to give you some time alone now. Time to continue exploring your body and these new forms of pleasure.

Take your time. Go slow.

There’s no goal. Right now, we’re just trying something new.

Get in tune with your body. Listen to what it likes and what it doesn’t.

Thank yourself for giving your body this gift.

Perhaps you’d like to continue exploring with anal play. Or maybe you would like to move on to another form of self-touch. Whatever you decide to do, I hope that this session has been relaxing and informative. Our bodies are capable of so much pleasure, as long as we have an open mind.